Wednesday, March 25, 2015
Reality is Harsh
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Wow!
I'm at the doctor's office for semi-annual lab work for my diabetes. I snuck in the back and weighed myself. I'm down nine pounds in a little less than two weeks!!! Wow! Eating right really does help. Praise God for all those little moments of will power.
Starting weight: 315
Current weight: 304
Goal weight:175
Wednesday, March 18, 2015
Counting My Blessings
Last night was hard. The silence continues. I now know why at least. It hurts me. I cry. I pray. I cry again.
God is good. All things work to his glory. I will smile through this because I know that I was not made for this world. Thus pain and hurt are temporary and no matter the outcome I'll be right where God wants me to be.
So as a exercise of faith and being grateful for all things God has done I'm going to list things I'm grateful for.
1. My salvation and a living God.
2. The wonderful friends God had or in my path.
3. A career I love that keeps me busy throughout the day and provides for my financial needs.
4. My health. I am alive and well for another day and fighting the good fight.
5. My husband. We have our issues. Who doesn't? I love him for who he is, broken, flawed, tender hearted, generous, stubborn sinner.
6. My parents. They too have their flaws but are irreplaceable.
7. My fur babies. The only beings on this earth who love me unconditionally.
8. The rain.
My life change on the food getting is going well. I'm managing to resist the food temptations through the grace of God. He really does answer prayers. I started using my fitness pal again to track my food and exercise. Now I just need to actually start exercising again.
That's it for now. My love to y'all.
Monday, March 16, 2015
Small Victories
Last week I bought a chocolate cake parfait for me and red velvet for Mark. I have no appetite right now. I was about to eat mine for dinner. Instead from God above I got a sudden jolt of NO!! I threw it and Mark's in the trash and the last couple of brownies from last week.
I did it. No will power. Comfort eater me. I DID IT.
Thank you God for giving me the strength.
Out of Left Field
This is really hard. I currently feel like a prisoner in our home. The silence is physically painful.
I'm currently doing what I always do. Speaking with my dear friends and mentors. Asking for prayers. Most importantly I am praying. I am giving it fully to God for He is the ultimate healer. He is the only one who loves me completely and unconditionally. For that I am SUPER grateful and encouraged. I know he's holding me right now. I am being still and listening for his plans.
It's funny how easy it is to fall into a comfortable rut and not think about God. Ultimately, it's foolish. Don't get me wrong. I pray all the time. I read my Bible. I go to church. But I become complacent. I start relying on my own "wisdom" instead of relying fully on Him. I'm so very blessed by the people in my life and I'm grateful. But ultimately I need to continue to fully rely on God.
So here I am, driven to my knees once again by the sorrow and heartbreak that comes along with the rough patches in marriage. And you know what. I'm joyful in knowing that I can trust God fully and that he will see me through.
Praise God for the hard stuff!
On the food as my functional savior front. I've been doing pretty well. And then today, we had our final team meal that we earned for performance. I made this order before I faced up to reality and had completely forgotten about it. Everyone had pre-ordered 3 tacos plus guacamole and queso and cookies I had completely forgotten. I sat there at my desk and ate all three tacos and queso and guac. I didn't eat the cookie though. That's good right? I have such horrible habits! I did it without even thinking about it, just ate what I was given. When I was done I felt really gross. That's the most I've eaten in days. I realized what I was done and I was horrified. I immediate went to be alone and prayed and asked God to forgive me for using food to gain happiness and asked that instead He teach me to rely on Him for happiness. I know I'll stumble and fall. But I know that God will always pick me up and brush me off.
Until next time.
Friday, March 13, 2015
Confession Time
I am not healthy. I weigh more today than I have ever weighed in my life. I'm tired all the time. I have zero motivation to exercise. I have diabetes.
I have been praying for a while now for God to give me the strength to change. You know what? He is, I just have to listen. I've been eating smaller portions of healthy choices. When my sprained ankle is completely healed I'll start walking again.
I've battled myself, even this morning to not make poor choices. I will not lie, it's an hourly struggle because the temptations are all there. I could easily have stopped at Whataburger this morning for one of those delicious honey butter chicken biscuits. I REALLY wanted to. I was craving it. I didn't do it. Instead I'm sitting here at my desk at work eating raw veggies and hummus for breakfast.
It's hard when I'm feeling emotionally vulnerable not to use food as a coping mechanism. Even as I sit here and type this I feel like such a jerk. How on Earth could I ever willingly put food above God? What is wrong with me? Simply put I' a sinner. I stumble. I fall. I stink at being a Christian. But you know what? I can and will do better. You know why? Because I'm forgiven.
I've decided I am going to share my journey for several reasons.
1. I felt led to by God. So here I am.
2. I need to be transparent in my faith and in my struggles.
3. I need the accountability.
4. Maybe God will use my struggles to inspire someone else.
So here I am, laying it all out there for the world to see.
Starting weight: 315lbs
Goal Weight: 175lbs.
The journey of life change begins now.
Food will NOT be my functional savior.
Until next time.